Ask if you need it.

So it’s been two weeks since my accident and I’ve now come out of the GA fog. It’s been an emotional rollercoaster for sure. Going from ‘phew I’ve got away with it’ to ‘it’s a nasty break and will need surgery’ was a big shock for me. And the emotions of knowing I wasn’t going to be able to ride for up to 3 months was hard to take. The effects of the surgery really knocked me for six.

Time does help. Two weeks on and I’m feeling stronger and more balanced (on my good leg of course). But it’s still tough going. I’m having to adapt to my limitations. Living on my own, I wasn’t sure whether I’d be able to cope. Or how I could get around, feed myself and general exist?! ‘Pip’s Angels’ have kept me going. They’ve fetched and carried. They’ve made me smile. They’ve made me realise that no person is an island. Everyone needs help from time to time. So I’m gratefully accepting it. And learning to ask for it. That’s been a big thing for me.

I’m still overwhelmed by how many people have get it touch to make sure I’m OK. And been so generous with their time. I’ve got a long way to go on this journey, but it really helps to know I’m not on my own.

There really are people who will catch you – literally in my case!!

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